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In fact, this is far from the general Japanese' behavior or sense of worth. |
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Good Japanese girls are always taught to protect their chastity, and for the large part they do -- though there are occasional lapses, and they have to start over again.
But a surprising survey by men's magazine Spa! (8/7) reveals that 55 percent of women would, under certain circumstances, sleep with a guy the first night they meet him. And the men's weekly probes some of those women who did just that for the first time, finding out why they took the plunge -- or to be more precise, permitted their partner to take the plunge.
Satoko Yamanabe was 23 when she chose a co-worker to be the first person she slept with after their first date, following a night on the booze a couple of years ago.
Yamanabe's fiance had recently dumped her and she was feeling lonely.
She blurted her heart out to her co-worker as they drank, and the next thing she realized she was in his arms in his apartment.
"It's true that he helped me fill a hole in my heart and put me at ease," she tells Spa!
Tomomi Nishino vowed never to give herself up cheaply, so still regrets her foray into fast flings from four years ago.
She met a guy through an SNS site and enjoyed his company; so much, in fact, that they kept bar-hopping till she was so blotto she had no idea what she was doing.
"I woke up in the morning and realized we'd had sex.
I was horribly ashamed and thought I'd done something terribly bad.
I crept out of his house and vowed never to meet him again, but I forgot my train pass and he called me up," the 31-year-old ad agency worker says.
"He kept asking me out, but I told him how embarrassed I was about what had happened and always refused to meet again."
Megumi Yamakawa virtually fell into her one-off, prompted by watching her friends make out with guys they'd all just met at a match making party.
Yamakawa had spent the evening lumbered with a boring salesman, but responded as she watched all her friends kissing the men they'd met and the man she'd talked to sought the same from her.
"I thought it was OK because everyone else was doing it," the 25-year-old tells Spa!
"When he stuck his tongue in my mouth, I started kissing him back."
When Yuko Enomoto was 22, she was involved in a long-distance relationship with a man whose friend offered to take her out for a drive in his new car.
When the friend professed his love -- or at least lust -- for her, she responded, knowing that she was doing the wrong thing by her boyfriend by cheating, but feeling the friend was being even naughtier by jeopardizing their camaraderie.
"It was probably me who talked him into sleeping together," she says.
"But I had no intention of splitting up with my boyfriend and it was a once only affair."
Sachiko Adachi slept with a man not long after meeting him while on a trip to Bali with a group of her female friends.
She'd been so impressed by the efforts of local hotel worker Din to understand her, she accepted his offer to take a hotel room together so they could try and get to know each other better through their travel book English phrase conversations.
They drank and the night turned romantic.
"There was hardly any foreplay and he was so forceful, it hurt," she says.
"I prefer Japanese guys, but I was still impressed by just how hard he tried to woo me."
Being impressed went a long way toward Yumi Endo jumping into the sack with the president of the temp agency she works for after her boss threw a lavish party attended by dozens of models.
Despite the bevy of beauties, the company boss only had eyes for her, and soon led Endo toward a hotel room.
"When I told him that was unacceptable, he was angry.
'What's unacceptable?
That I picked you out as the most beautiful woman at the party?
You should be delighted,' he told me," Endo tells Spa!
"Considering how many gorgeous women had been hanging around and that he had deliberately gone after me, I felt a sense of honor and ended up going with him." (By Ryann Connell)
初めて出会った女性をお持ち帰りして、即Hをキメる。ある意味、男にとってこれほどオイシイ展開はないでしょう。とはいえ、即Hに持ち込める機会など、合コンの達人やナンパ師など“その道のプロ”でもない限り、そうそうあるものではありません。と、思いきや――。20~30代の女性の声を拾ってみると、身持ちが堅いはずなのに、初めて出会った男と、または性的対象ではなかった知り合いの男と、勢いで即Hしてしまった、というケースが多くあることがわかりました。彼女たちはなぜその夜、図らずも大胆な行動に走ったのでしょうか。下半身がゆるいコならいざ知らず、「即Hなんてありえない!」と思っていた真面目な女性がそうした行動に出た場合、やはりそこには複雑な事情があるはず。というわけで、小誌は即H経験のある女性100人にアンケートを実施。即Hをした当日の状況を振り返ってもらいながら、彼女たちが「今夜はいいかも」と思った理由を、心理面やシチュエーションなど、多角的な角度から分析しました。この微妙な女心を知っておけば、いざというときに役立つ、かもしれませんよ!?
小誌は即H経験のある女性100人にアンケートを実施。
643 名前:可愛い奥様 メェル:sage 投稿日:2008/07/10(木) 02:18:09 ID:q5hAk5Pj0 waiwai「酒と甘い言葉 : 彼女をはじめてのデートでおとすダークな芸術」 と 元ネタ「実録 女が[初めて即Hした日]詳細リポート」(週刊SPA! 2007/8/7号) 55%という数字について waiwaiは日本女性の55%は特定の状況下で初めて会った晩に男と寝ると記述している。 SPA!の記事では即Hの経験のある女性100人へのアンケートの結果、55人は元々 相手や状況によっては("=特定の状況下では"か?)即Hをしたいと思っていたと回答したというもの。 wikiにも指摘がありますが、母集団が日本人女性全体にすりかえられているようです。 四件目の女性(遠距離の彼氏の友達と) SPA!は親友を裏切ってまで自分を口説いたのでほだされたという内容。 waiwaiにある、自分から抱いてと言ったという記述はありません。 六件目の女性(選ばれた優越感) SPA!では自信家の社長に「選ばれたことを喜ぶべきだ」と言い切られてその気になったという内容。 waiwaiでは社長は(拒絶されて)怒りながら上記のことを言ったことになっています。 ……ゲイシャファンタジーの臭いを感じ取るのは考え過ぎでしょうか。 男の玩具扱いに甘んじて反抗もせず言いなりになる意志薄弱な日本人女性、みたいな。